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He doesn't want to tell his parents that I'm pregnant...

Posted by Lifetime Adoption on November 19, 2012

My "boyfriend/fiancé" doesn't want to tell his parents that I'm pregnant. He keeps lying to them about me, hiding me, and avoiding to tell them after I even threaten him to tell them! He makes it seem so negative to be having a baby and just thinks about me and him only or maybe just him and sex. Should I just leave him?
-Stephanie

Stephanie,
I think you should give him a serious talk and tell him how you feel and that you feel that his parents need to know. They might not be happy about it but that they need to know. Tell him you are willing to tell them on your own on your own terms if he wants. Be straight up with him. They're going to notice sooner or later so it would be better to tell them then have them find out some other way and be angry with you two. Good luck!
-Jewelz