Adoptive Families Blog

How to Trust God When Times Are Tough

Posted by Mardie Caldwell on September 3, 2015

 trust in Him and take that leap of faith, you will be pleasantly "God moves in mysterious ways
His wonders to performs”
-William Couper

blinds-200x300It is every woman's dream to hold her first baby in her arms. There is nothing more painful yet joyful as giving birth to your child. You think you are ready to start a family and imagine everything will happen "just as planned." After all, isn't that how it is with all the other women you know? But, after 12 months of "trying," you find out that you are now medically an infertile couple. It is devastating news and one that you wouldn't wish on your worst enemy. But, is it the end of the road? Will you never become a mother? Do you feel God has let you down?

I want to encourage you to meditate on those biblical verses that talk about God's will and plan for His children (Psalm 25:12, Psalm 32:8, Psalm 37:4-7, Proverbs 2:6-9, Cor 10:13, Isaiah 58:11). God promises that He has plans to bless us and not harm us...plans to give us hope and a future. There are times when the plans in our head do not match the plans that God has prepared for us. But, if you trust in Him and take that leap of faith, you will be pleasantly surprised at how God was able to work your darkest hour into a bright and sunny day!

Whether you want to try assisted reproduction treatments or want to consider adoption, invite God into the situation. Trust that God, in His wisdom, is trying to make something out of you through this difficult time. Ask Him to guide you towards His divine plan for your parenthood and show you what He wants you to do. If you are considering adoption, take a step back and check if your motives are pure. Do you want to become a parent or do you want a biological child? You cannot adopt a child for selfish reasons i.e. to make you a mother or to fill a void. An adopted child is no different from a biological one. The former is born of your heart while the latter is born of your body! God has prepared a child for you. Be strong and persevere until He leads you to your child.

If you're ready to step forward in faith and learn more about adoption, hearing from other couples will help educate you. Click on the image below to sign up for Lifetime's FREE series of open adoption webinars.

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Topics: Open Adoption, Christian Adoption, Adoption prayer