Adoptive Families Blog

Bringing Out What Makes You Unique in Your Adoption Profile

Posted by Lifetime Adoption on July 1, 2014

The following was excerpted from Lifetime Adoption Founder Mardie Caldwell’s award-winning book on Christian adoption, Called to Adoption:

Mona and Dan lived in the High Desert of Nevada with their son, Jake, who was four years old. They had adopted him through a state agency two years before and wanted to adopt again, so they called me.

Full-figured with her short, strawberry blonde hair, Mona was outgoing and had a great smile. Dan was slender and handsome but, unlike his wife, was quiet and shy. Both were in their early thirties. Dan worked as a mechanic; Mona was a stay-at-home mom.

Our center started working on their profile. One photograph for the web page showed them standing with Jake in front of their neat doublewide modular home, surrounded by sand, sagebrush, and cactus. I got to know them pretty well. They lived a simple and unhurried life centered on their home and family. They rarely went on vacation trips, and their extended family consisted of some friends who lived hundreds of miles away.

Mona and Dan worried that their profile wouldn’t stack up to those they’d seen of other adopting parents who had college degrees, a lot of money, big houses and lawns, grandparents nearby, and Hawaiian vacations planned.

I asked Dan if there was anything special about Mona.

“There is one thing,” he said. “She’s famous for her chocolate chip cookies. They’re made from a secret recipe.”

In the profile, we wrote that her cookies were the “best around those parts.” One month later, Mona and Dan were chosen by a pregnant birth mother named Sarah, who told me that the cookies were the thing that had first appealed to her. She imagined her child coming home from school to chocolate chip cookies fresh from the oven, then climbing into Mona’s soft lap to cuddle.

Around the office, Mona is remembered as our Chocolate Chip Cookie Mom. And I’ve got to tell you, hers were the best cookies I ever tasted, though she never would give me the recipe.

Adoption profiles are an important aspect of your adoption, because they allow birth mothers to learn more about potential adoptive parents for their baby. At Lifetime Adoption, we provide adoptive families one-on-one assistance in preparing their adoption profiles. We are here to guide you through the process! Please call Lifetime Adoption Center to learn more: (530) 271-1740.