Adoptive Families Blog

5 Things You Should Never Say to Your Adopted Child

Posted by Mardie Caldwell on February 9, 2016

As an adoptive mother and adoption professional, I've heard a number of stories and helped with thousands of adoptions. I’d like to share some very important and helpful tips for adoptive parents. 

There are several damaging comments adoptive parents sometimes tell their children that can truly cause permanent damage to them. These comments can exit your mouth when you are frustrated, tired, hungry and/or sleep-deprived.

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Topics: Parenting, Domestic Adoption, Mardie Caldwell, adoptive parenting

Explaining Adoption to Your Children

Posted by Lifetime Adoption on October 1, 2015

Question: How do I explain adoption to my biological children? We want to add to our family through adoption and be able to explain to our children the reason and what positive aspects adoption has. Can you help?

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Topics: children, Open Adoption, Parenting, Domestic Adoption, Adopting a Baby

Adoption Q & A: As an adoptive family, what can we do to speed up the adoption process?

Posted by grace on November 27, 2013

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Topics: Adoption, Adoption Questions, Open Adoption, Parenting, Waiting to Adopt

What Have You Heard about Adoption?

Posted by grace on October 23, 2013

Open Adoption has changed the way women see options when facing unplanned pregnancy. If she isn’t ready or able to provide for her child, adoption can become a positive solution for her and her baby.

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Topics: Adoption Questions, Open Adoption, Communication, Parenting, Adoption Tips

6 Tips to Help Your Child Adjust to Your Newly Adopted Baby

Posted by Lifetime Adoption on May 20, 2013

How do you help your older child adjust to a new baby in the house? It is not easy, but it can be done in a way that encourages your child and keeps him from feeling displaced. Adding a new baby to the family is a life-changing experience. There are things you, as parents, can do to create a positive and healthy family atmosphere. Bringing baby home doesn't have to be a stressful time!

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Topics: Parenting, Adoption Tips, Adopting a Baby

Blessings and Tips for Mother's Day As You Wait to Adopt

Posted by Lifetime Adoption on May 11, 2013

Lifetime would like to wish a Happy Mother’s Day to all of our wonderful adoptive moms, our amazing birth moms and all women who will soon fall into one of these two categories! We would like to reflect with gratitude and awe for taking on the great challenge of caring for one of God’s precious children. For adoptive families, it is so important to recognize the incredible courage it takes to carry a child for nine months and then lovingly choose an adoptive family. It is the ultimate act of love, not only for the child, but for you, as well!

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Topics: Parenting, Awareness, Family

To Church or Not on Mother’s Day: The Debate of a Mom-in-waiting

Posted by Lifetime Adoption on May 10, 2013

By Mardie Caldwell, C.O.A.P.

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Topics: Parenting, Family, Faith, Infertility, Waiting to Adopt

...And Baby Makes Three

Posted by Lifetime Adoption on February 28, 2013

We recently received this open adoption story from Lifetime adoptive family Josh and Laci and wanted to share it with you here. We love hearing how open adoption changes a family by more than just adding a child!

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Topics: Open Adoption, Parenting, Waiting to Adopt

Smart Secrets to Soothing Your Baby

Posted by Lifetime Adoption on January 14, 2013

The first week with your newborn home is bliss. By week two, you are probably turning into a sleep deprived zombie. When week three rolls around, you may be tempted to sit down on the floor and cry right along with baby (especially if it is two in the morning).

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Topics: Parenting, Newborn Adoption, Adopting a Baby

Volunteering

Posted by Lifetime Adoption on January 14, 2013

You have all heard Proverbs 22:6, “Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is grown, he will not depart from it.” This valuable lesson also applies to teaching our children about the joys of giving to others. There are many opportunities to volunteer and much need. How do we impart the importance of volunteering on our children? We lead by example.

Preschool is not too young to start your child helping you in your efforts. Retirement homes frequently welcome visitors. A young child can bring joy to those who are removed from them on a daily basis. Call first, then bring flowers to the elderly and sit down for a short visit. Maybe you will want to deliver meals to shut-ins through the Meals on Wheels program. I used to bring my infant to the door, when I brought a hot meal to someone’s home. They would beam at my sleeping daughter. “May I touch her?” they would ask, sweetly. It always brought joy to the elderly on my volunteer route.

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Topics: Adoption, Open Adoption, Parenting, Newborn Adoption